Rebecca (Rebecca Hall), already established as a kind and long-suffering sort, sits before a man on a blind date. She offers a frank statement about growing up in New York, accepting the good of such an upbringing, acknowledging the drawbacks. With the words barely out of her mouth, the stock asshole sitting opposite her pours out his disdain for the city as a place to raise children. He then proceeds, printout in hand, to take issue with Rebecca's hair color, rankled at the perceived difference to the color indicated in the profile that he's holding. She politely points out that there really is no misrepresentation, but he will have none if it. That rencontre, early in Nicole Holofcener's Please Give, is reminiscent of a scene in her 2001 film, Lovely and Amazing , the one in which the Emily Mortimer character, Elizabeth, asks the man with whom she's sl...